The problem of loneliness in psychology has
been addressed repeatedly. And every time it seems that simple advice and
recommendations “do not work”. So why does it happen?
We make lists of priority male qualities,
correct the wrong, each time reluctantly reducing their female needs. And we
get, unfortunately, a worsening personal situation. Disappointed and
desperate, we generally abandon everything, and personal life becomes something
distant, unattainable and absolutely unreal.
Everything could have remained that way if
some of us had not realized the important reason for what is happening. We
unconsciously create everything that we are in. We run our own internal program
of loneliness. And it is not always negative for us. Here is the rating of the
main internal reasons for this lack of privacy.
1. You don’t want to change anything in
“Let the perfect partner come and do
what I want!” – you think. And at the same time, really good men don’t
understand why they only have to adjust and climb under the heel. After all,
many women themselves, sooner or later, give up relationships with obedient
men, losing respect and interest. True harmony in partnership.
2. Experience of previous negative
Traumatic experiences lead to the certainty
that men are a source of negativity and pain. And as a result, we begin to
avoid relationships. Some people ignore positive men, focusing exclusively on
inappropriate options. Some, on the contrary, take what is “bad lying
down”, just to unconsciously convince themselves once again that nothing
good can or cannot happen in a relationship.
3. You are comfortable and pleasant in your
You do what you want, when you want, and
you don’t report to anyone. Everything would be fine if it weren’t for the
pressure society and the eternal stupid and incorrect question: “Are you
still single?”, which hangs some strange and implausible labels.
If at any point you recognize yourself or
you have your own exclusive reasons for loneliness – all this suggests that you
are exactly where your unconscious mind wants to be.
It is easy enough to help yourself if you
have a high level of inner motivation with such methods.
Determine what you want from the relationship
(and do you want it at all?), what is your goal. What is your request.
Start creating daily visuals of this
desired future, with all the visual images, sensations, and even sound, if